Dear Wife, I’m Dead – Here’s What You Need to Do

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what happens if you dieHave you ever thought about how well your family would operate without you? I mean, what happens if you die? Sure, they’d be sad and they’d probably be unable to physically move for a few days. After all, death is one of the most tragic occurrences in all of life…but, I’m not talking about emotions here. I’m basically just talking about money (surprise surprise, I know ;)).

*BOOM!!*

The car next to you just abruptly switched lanes and creamed you in the driver side front quarter-panel. You careem across two lanes and an SUV plows into your back-end. The next impact is the guard-rail…and that’s that last thing you remember.

You’re dead.

It could happen to anyone! At any given moment, death happens.

  • Freak accident
  • Cancer
  • Heart attack
  • Liver failure

Are you prepared for your death? Or would your family grieve for your loss and then grieve again because they had no money? What happens if you die?

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The cost is probably less than $20 a month and it’ll only take you a few minutes to sign up. No medical exams. No long forms to fill out. No excuses.

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Here’s my plan….

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Dear Wife, I’m Dead. Here’s What You Need to Do.

Liz,

I had dreams of growing old with you – walking the Caribbean beach together, napping in the peaceful rolling hills of Great Britain, and owning that piece of property in the country that we’ve been dreaming about since day one – but if you’re reading this letter…then I guess it just wasn’t meant to be. I’m sorry, but I’m gone…already waiting for you on the other side.

I know this whole thing is painful, but hopefully all this planning will at least take away the stress out of what you need to do next.

Here’s your step-by-step guide. I love you.

1) Pay For the Funeral with Cash from Savings

You and me babe, we’ve always been savers. At this moment, I’m sure there’s at least $15,000 in our checking and savings. Take out $8,000 and do what needs to be done with the funeral home. I don’t need anything flashy – the Toyota casket will do. No sense paying for that Rolls Royce. It’ll just getting buried with dirt anyway. 😉

…and speaking of Toyota’s…sell my car. That’ll add a nice pile of cash to our already-loaded savings account.

2) Sell This Website

Hundreds of thousands of people depend on this website each year to get their money questions answered. It would be a shame to just let it die with me. Not to mention the fact that it’s valuable – probably 10 times more valuable than that car I just told you to sell.

Related: Sell My Site for $60,000?

Reach out to J. Money from Budgets are Sexy and “ESI” from ESI Money. They’ll help you find a good buyer for this site, and at a fair price too. I trust them both.

Put this money into Addi’s college fund. With the amount you get from insurance along with the 16 years of growth, this should cover almost all of her schooling (make her work for the rest, it’ll be good for her ;)).

3) Collect the Life Insurance Money

Between my work life insurance and the term insurance we both bought last year, you should receive roughly $400,000. My work will tell you what to do to gather up their life insurance money. And the term insurance papers are in our safe. Just send them my death certificate and you’ll get the money shortly thereafter.

In the meantime, just live off of our savings. There’s plenty in there. Don’t freak out…things are going to be just fine.

Keep reading.

4) Invest It, Draw Some From It

Alright. You’ve got $400,000 in your hands. Invest it. All of it.

We’ve already got a Wealthsimple investment account. Just add all of this money to the existing “growth fund”. With this amount of money, they’ll manage the account for free and it’ll grow by roughly $2,600 a month. You should be able to live on that. In fact, since our house is paid for and we have absolutely no debt, and since those rental houses are both earning money, you should really only need to withdraw $1,000 a month (yes, even with Addi’s private school).

The $400k will continue to grow, even with your withdrawals, and you can use it later in life for special trips, additional college funding, or heck, use it for your early retirement.

5) Keep the Rentals, Have Someone Else Manage Them

I know your first instinct would be to sell the rentals because you don’t think you can manage them. Don’t do it. Those properties are cash cows. Not only are they producing profits of $20,000 a year, they’re also appreciating in value by 3-5% each year.

Your best bet is to have someone manage the properties for you. If Ryan is in town at this point, ask him if he’ll do it. He’ll be fair and with all those properties he owns himself, he obviously knows what he’s doing.

Pay him $200 a month plus expenses. You won’t have to worry about a thing and you’ll still clear $16,000-$17,000 a year.

6) If Addi Isn’t in School Yet, Stay Home

I’m gone, and so is my work income…but that’s okay!

When I was working, we had way more money coming in than we had going out. With the extra $1,000 that you’re pulling out of investments each month and with the $1,500 that you’ll get from the rentals, you’ll have more than enough money to pay the bills.

Don’t rush out and try to find a job. Just stay at home with that sweet daughter of ours. Life is going to be tough emotionally, and you’ll both need each other to heal.

7) Keep Pursuing Your Photography Career

I probably didn’t say it enough when I was alive, but you sure turned into one amazing photographer. And the business that you’ve worked so hard to grow, it’s about to take off, I can feel it! Grieve for as long as you need to, but be sure that you don’t let that photography dream die.

With love and peace,

Derek

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What Happens If You Die? Or Your Spouse Dies?

So what’s your letter going to look like? What happens if you die?

For most, there is no letter…and there’s no money. They always meant to buy life insurance, but it always seemed like too much of a hassle to do today…

Let me clue you in though…your FAMILY is worth the hassle. I’m sure you’d agree, so let’s get this taken care of right now.

Apply for your term life insurance at Ethos. It’s cheap, easy, and it honestly takes less than 15 minutes. You’ll feel amazing that you finally did it and your family will surely thank you if anything ever happens.


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10 comments to Dear Wife, I’m Dead – Here’s What You Need to Do

  • Wow, pretty morbid article today. How depressing, thinking about your own death. Good to know you got your family covered though in the event of your untimely ending. I think my family would get by just fine without me and my measly part time income. No need for me to write our such a detailed plan of action and instructions. Hopefully this helps those that need it.
    Keep up the good work!

    • Morbid, but incredibly important.

      Don’t sell yourself short, Tim. You earn money at your job, you earn a heck of a lot of money doing those flips, and you save a bunch of money by watching the kiddos while your wife works! You should DEFINITELY have life insurance. Probably $500k minimum!

  • Dani

    I’m glad that you have this plan in place. Even when it seems like everything is taken care of, sometimes the survivors really just need the assurance that such a letter would give; this takes the “having to think too much” off their shoulders during the hardest time. Usually, though, most people don’t have things taken care of and a little clarification would go a long way! I have every faith that my husband would not make the moves that we “discussed” (we have had the conversation several times), because when I bring it up, he balks at the idea of my not being here. With such a letter, he can hand it to the good friend that I know will step in to help, he can hand it to the banker, the investment advisor, the funeral director, even! No extra thought necessary, and no inability to imagine the worst while I am still here.
    I deal with years-old estates sometimes, things that didn’t get handled properly and family members that no longer speak to one another. Get a plan, people. Write it down. Make sure everyone who might be part of your greater estate plan know about it and where to find what’s necessary.
    Morbid? I don’t really think so; we’re all gonna die, so it really is best to be prepared because nobody knows when their number is up. It is the most loving thing you can do.

  • I can insure myself as far as life insurance, but my husband is un-insurable due to a health issue

    What then?

    • Save up and become as wealthy as possible as fast as possible. If you’re still worried about it, you can get some gimmick mortgage insurance and quick personal life insurance policies (for $10k or so), but these are pretty expensive compared to term insurance rates. BUT, with being un-insurable, these might be your best options.

  • Kathy

    My husband and I have certainly progressed from his mother’s attitude of “Dad, don’t talk about it” to having definite plans and discussions for what will happen if one of us die. Heck, we even have a multi-page letter to our son in a safe deposit box with instructions to him containing our bank and investment account information, insurance info, funeral wishes etc. in the event we both die at the same time. Our son’s name is on the box and we’ve told him where the keys are so he should have no trouble getting into the box. My husband handled his parent’s estate and I helped my mom with my dad’s and step-dad’s estates so we both know how convoluted things can get. When you add emotions to the mix, many people just don’t think coherently for a long time afterward. Having a plan written down is something tangible they can refer to and maybe not stray off the plan too much.

  • I’ve got a spreadsheet that has kind of everything needed but there isn’t anything step by step. Probably should be. Very depressing to think about but necessary all the same.

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