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5 Reasons Why I Started Paying My Two Year Old Daughter

started paying my two year old daughter“I help you dada.” That was the cute voice of my two year old. I was out in the backyard playing with her… Then I got distracted by the weeds that were starting to take over the back corner of our lush green lawn. I started pulling them…and then she pulled some too! Next, I placed them back on our weed pile. She followed…and placed hers there too! For the next 20 minutes, we pulled weeds, and she transported all of them to the weed pile all by herself. It was right then and there that I decided to start paying my two year old daughter. 🙂

5 Reasons Why I Started Paying My Two Year Old Daughter

Have you ever asked yourself, “When is it time to start teaching my kids about money?” I think every one of us that has kids has wondered about this at one time or another. I know I have!

While I don’t think there’s a magic formula that will give you the answer to this seemingly mysterious question, if your child is interested in working and won’t eat the money you give to them (I mean literally put it in their mouths), I say they’re ready!

So why is this so important? Why is it that I started paying my two year old daughter for doing work around the house? I’ve got five solid reasons…

1) So She Knows What Cash Looks Like

Here are the typical transactions my wife and I have throughout each month and the method of payment used for them:

  • Paycheck from work: Auto-deposit into our checking and savings
  • Income from website: Paypal
  • Groceries: Debit card
  • Gas for cars: Debit card
  • Heating bill: Bank auto-draft
  • Electric/Water bill: Check
  • Misc purchases: Amazon, credit card

We literally use cash for nothing (other than the occasional $5 I shell out for golf once in a while), so if we continue on this path, our daughter will have absolutely no idea what cash really is and what it’s used for. And, by never really seeing cash used, it’s going to be tough for her to grasp the concept of money (ie. point #2 below).

By paying her in cash for random chores around the house, she’ll be able to stack up those dollar bills in her “piggy bank” (a clear plastic mixed nuts jar we had in the basement ;)) and proudly point to them as her monies (so far, she has $2). 🙂

2) She Learns that Money Comes From Work

“I’m sorry hunny, we don’t have the money for that…” my co-worker tried to tell her 4-year-old daughter.

“Yes you do mommy, just put that card in the machine. Then money will come out!” was the little girl’s response….as she was clearly talking about an ATM machine.

I witnessed this back before I was even married or had any kids, but I knew right then that my future four year child wouldn’t be as clueless about money as this one. Okay, yes, I know. She was only four. I’ll cut her a little bit of slack. But she had absolutely no idea that people had to work for money in order to pay bills, buy things, or to bless others!  Her mom must have never talked about money and probably bought this girl something every time she went into town.

Money comes from work. That’s what people need to learn, and that’s exactly why I started paying my two year old daughter.

When she does the work, I pay her a commission (not an allowance – In my humble opinion, children shouldn’t earn money simply because they’re breathing). If she decides not to do the work, she earns no money (and if it continues, she’ll probably get punished…).

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3) She Discovers That Money is Used to Buy Things

Another great reason I started paying my two year old to do outdoor chores is to show her that yes, money comes from work, but you can also use that money to buy things. Over the course of the next few weeks, I’ll probably find a few other chores that she can excel at and earn another $5 or so. Then, we’ll head to the store, pick out something that she wants with her money, and she’ll proudly walk out of the store with it.

Many kids don’t experience this until they’re 23 years old and get their first job out of college. My daughter…she’s going to be 21 years ahead of them.

The more you accomplish, the more money you’ll get, and the more money you have, the more things you can buy.

4) She Learns That She Can’t Afford Everything

So here’s what’s likely going to happen when we walk into the store with her money:

  • We’ll first walk in and she’ll point at the first thing she sees — probably a tin of muffins or a hot-and-ready chicken… I’ll shield her away from them and lead her to the toys.
  • She’ll look at all the toys and pick out the biggest thing, which likely costs $150+
  • I’ll tell her that she doesn’t have enough money for that thing and group together 4-5 things that she can afford with her $7
  • She’ll be sad initially, but then she’ll pick her favorite toy of the group and will proudly take it to the cash register, pay for it, and then smile from ear to ear as she exits the store with her new toy

It’s important for kids to learn that some things are just too expensive and that they can’t afford them. If you don’t have the money to buy it, then you shouldn’t…plain and simple.

Some adults still need to learn this lesson…

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5) It’s Her Stepping Stone to Saving and Giving

I started paying my two year old daughter so she could start learning the concept of money at an early age. At this point though, she’s probably not old enough to understand the concept of clicking the “donate” button on the Habitat for Humanity website…That’s just not going to happen, so we’ll just save that learning for later. BUT, by paying her a commission now and showing her how to keep that money safe in her “piggy bank”, we’ll later be able to start dividing it into different jars:

  • One for short-term saving – for things like candy, small toys, and probably some Minnie Mouse balloons here and there
  • Another for long-term saving – for things like a ginormous slip-and-slide (this is my secret hope anyway) or outrageously expensive designer jeans (when she gets to the age where she starts making this mistake…and hopefully learning from it on her own) 😉
  • And finally, the third jar will be for giving – likely to buy gifts for local children that can’t afford them otherwise

Short term saving, long-term saving, and giving – that’s really all that we need to know in order to do well with our money and become a fulfilled, happy human being. And the one simple clear jar is the stepping stone to all of the above.

I Started Paying My Two Year Old Daughter – Do You Think I’m Mad??

So what do you think? Am I a genius? Or am I just creating a money-hungry two year old that should really just remain an oblivious kid for a few more years (I must admit…she did sleep with her dollar bills the first two nights…oops! :))?

I’m paying my two year old daughter…would you do the same??



My name is Derek, and I have my Bachelors Degree in Finance from Grand Valley State University. After graduation, I was not able to find a job that fully utilized my degree, but I still had a passion for Finance! So, I decided to focus my passion in the stock market. I studied Cash Flows, Balance Sheets, and Income Statements, put some money into the market and saw a good return on my investment. As satisfying as this was, I still felt that something was missing. I have a passion for Finance, but I also have a passion for people. If you have a willingness to learn, I will continue to teach.


  1. I agree with you. My daughter is five and I started paying her a few years ago for helping me. She loves to help (although not as much as when she was 3 or 4). Two years ago we moved and I had a lot of wallpaper to remove right when we were moving in. One day she spent about 5 hours helping me remove wallpaper, and that was just a few weeks before her 4th birthday. She honesty was a real help, not just getting in the way. I paid her for all of the same reasons that you mentioned. In the past two years she’s learned a good bit. At one point she saved up more than $30 to buy a princess dress and wig that she wanted. I thought that discipline was pretty impressive for a 4 year old.

    • That IS impressive! I hope my daughter will have the same discipline when she gets older. That’s kind of the whole point of this exercise – to get all those dumb mistakes out of the way early in life! 😉

  2. quite certain it was MrMoneyMustache(MMM) who did something very similar. He takes it a step further though and actually holds on to his child’s money and works it like a bank. He has every transaction(earned/spent) they have ever done on a spreadsheet and he pays them interest. I thought this was pretty awesome.

    • Whoa. That sounds pretty extreme. Not sure I’ll be writing down every transaction, but we’ll see! We’ve got a bit of time before she saves up and makes her first purchase. 🙂

  3. Your number 2 reminded me of why our son was little and I said exactly the same thing when he asked for something. His response was “write a check”. That was before ATMs. We also paid him to do jobs around the house, especially when he was old enough to do things like vacuum, help mow the lawn, do laundry. Because both my husband and I were working full time, it saved us time doing those things on weekends; and, as you said, it taught our son that money is earned from work. My next step was taking him with me to the bank to take out a CD for his college savings where he learned about earning money through interest. Now that was something he really liked!

    • Ha, yup. Just write a check mom! Sounds like you taught him well though. Did it seem like all your teaching paid off in the end?

  4. Way ahead of me. I can barely get my 3 year old to pack away his toys. But I will definitely try to do what you did once he starts doing something here at home.

    • Once your son learns the value of money, I bet he’ll be more willing to do a few extra things around the house. It might take a bit, but I bet he’ll catch on! Keep working on it!

  5. Very cool idea, I suppose I could start paying my young children, they love to work, sometimes they like to work more than playing! They also love helping out with demo and other small tasks on our flip houses. I just hope they don’t ask for back pay or I’m going to be broke!

    • Hahaha. They’re pretty smart, so they might!!

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