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5 Keys For Happier Living

Have you ever said to yourself, “If only I had _______, then I would be happy.”? Perhaps your item of happiness is a bigger house, a nicer car, or maybe it’s a boat. You envy people so much that have these things you want – you figure that you would be happy forever if you had them as well. Do you know what I’ve learned in my short life already? This is an absolute lie.

When we were in grade school, middle schoolers seemed to rule the playground. They were bigger, faster, and could easily push you around. In your grade school days you said, “When I get to middle school, I’ll be happy.”

Then you get to middle school and discover that high schoolers can go out on dates, drive cars, and have so much freedom! Oh, how happy you’d be if you were a high schooler!

Next you envy college kids, then you just want a job that pays well, and soon you’ll be wishing for a wife and children. Then you’ll soon be wishing for the days of peace and quiet again and a retirement from work.

But once you hit retirement, you realize that you no longer wish for future events. You wish that you could go back and live life over again. Except this time you wouldn’t keep longing for something yet to come; you would decide to be happy in the moment of each day and cherish it like it was your last.

5 Keys for Happier Living

Rather than wishing your life away and assuming happiness is yet to come (likely in the form of a shiny new item), put these five keys to practice and begin enjoying life now!

1) Give

We go through life thinking that it would always be more fun to get, not give. But, giving is what truly makes you happy. You have the privilege of helping someone that might be in need and by accomplishing that need you receive a sense of purpose in this crazy life. By always receiving, your perception of the world will ultimately revolve around you. Instead, by giving you realize that there is much more to the world than your wants and needs, and you ultimately become very thankful and happy for those items you have always taken for granted. Begin to give and your happiness level will rise.

2) Build Relationships

Do you know someone that is old and lonely? Typically, these people begin to get grumpy and disorderly simply because they don’t have any relationships left in their life! Build strong relationships (which, incidentally can come from your giving) and watch your happiness level grow.

3) Take Care of Your Body

Some individuals believe that life is all about building wealth. They work 16 hour days (even over the weekends) and constantly push themselves to the limits, all while ignoring their health. Then, in their mid-50s they have millions of dollars, but also have terrible health and would pay any amount of money just to get their once-healthy body back.

Your health should be one of the most important variables in your life. Without a healthy body, life becomes more difficult and will ultimately bring you misery. Stay active, eat right, and keep your body in shape. You won’t be sorry you did!

keys to happiness4) Slow Down and Notice the World Around You

I am so terrible at this one, but I am getting better. My brain is always directing me to ‘the next things’ that I need to do, and I very seldom look around and enjoy the world around me. Riding my bicycle forced me to slow down a bit and recognize the beauty that surrounds me each and every day. Stay curious and continue to look at landscapes you may not have noticed before.

5) Keep Learning New Things

Your brain is designed to learn new things. If you work a job that is quite repetitive and does not allow you to use your mind each day, start challenging yourself with something new. Learn to play the piano, take painting lessons, learn about astronomy. Stay curious and you will forever have things to talk about, and you’ll probably just want to keep on learning. Keep your brain active and your happiness level will certainly improve.

Did you notice that “Earning big bucks” was not on the list? That’s because money will not make you happy. Sure, it might be nice to have nice things once in a while, but ultimately stuff is just stuff. It will give you a thrill for a couple of weeks, but will most certainly not provide lasting happiness.

Take note also that these are not the only keys to happiness, but this is a great place to start! Master these five keys and you will no doubt become a happier individual.

What are your favorite keys for happier living?

Battle of the Mind Money

AUTHOR Derek

My name is Derek, and I have my Bachelors Degree in Finance from Grand Valley State University. After graduation, I was not able to find a job that fully utilized my degree, but I still had a passion for Finance! So, I decided to focus my passion in the stock market. I studied Cash Flows, Balance Sheets, and Income Statements, put some money into the market and saw a good return on my investment. As satisfying as this was, I still felt that something was missing. I have a passion for Finance, but I also have a passion for people. If you have a willingness to learn, I will continue to teach.

13 Comments

  1. Great tips Derek. I like the first point “Give”. Every time i give i feels good. Why? Because that thing/money will be of much help when given to someone else that being in my possession.

    • That’s right! It’s not always easy to give, but it often times makes you a much happier person in the long run. Thanks for the comment Erastus.

  2. Good stuff Derek!
    Under the “keep learning new things” heading, I’m a big fan of our local library. I can go investigate something of interest for FREE. Check out a book or 2, read them in detail or just skim for the good parts. There’s no quiz when returned on time. Just hand ’em in and get more if you wish. Did I mention it’s FREE (when they’re returned on time). I’ve looked into Pearl Harbor, Doolittle’s Tokyo Raiders, Death March of Bataan and other things I felt I should know more about. Have fun.

    • Those are great examples Tom! I was just telling my girlfriend that it might be fun to learn how to paint. Taking a class most likely wouldn’t be free, but it would be so interesting to learn! And who knows, maybe I’ll like it enough to perfect my painting craft! 😉

  3. Great post!! If you chase after happiness, you will always be chasing it. You have to find happiness with what you have and in the beauty of life around you.

    As you pointed out, if you think $100K will make you happy, you;ll be disappointed because when you make that much, you’ll want more. Learn to be happy with what you have and your entire life will change.

    • Thanks for the awesome comment Don. It’s true, if you can never find yourself happy in your current situation, then it’s pretty likely that you won’t ever be happy. It is sad really, because there are so many things to be happy for in this life. Have a great day Don!

  4. I love that you didn’t mention money as being one of the points for happier living. I agree that money can only provide short term happiness;not long term. Jim Carey once quoted, “I hope everybody could get rich and famous and will have everything they ever dreamed of, so they will know that’s not the answer.” Even a filthy rich person can agree that money isn’t everything.

    • It’s so true. Thanks for the great comment Alexis!

  5. I think taking care of your body is very important, if you fall sick with critical sickness your love ones will suffer with you.

    • It is one of the most ignored, yet one of the most important things in life. If you do not take care of your body, not only will you feel terrible, but those around you will feel the second hand effects of your unhealthy lifestyle (via your sometimes terrible attitude). Thanks for the comment Kiat!

  6. Acceptance is the best way to live a happy life and never hide if who you really are. If you are trapped between your thoughts and what others think about you, always choose what makes you happy unless if you want other people to be happy except for you. There are times that people try to look for mistakes about you but forgot all the right things that you’ve done. Make sure everything you do makes you happy.

    • Thanks for the comment, Carol. You’re exactly right. If you want to be truly happy, then you have to first know yourself. Then, you can make the decisions that will please yourself and provide a happier life. The weird thing is, sometimes helping someone else is what will make you truly happy. 🙂


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